The Dos and Don’ts of Condoms

Condom usage is pretty straightforward: you put them on before sex, take them off afterwards. “What could go wrong?” you tell yourself.

Unfortunately, it’s not quite that simple. There are some instances when condoms fail, and when that happens, it’s usually chalked up to human error as well as inconsistent and incorrect usage. When a condom fails, you run the terrible risk of having an unwanted pregnancy, or worse, being infected with HIV or a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

The Proper usage of condoms boils down to knowing what you should and shouldn’t do with them. Here are a few rules and guidelines that should help you ‘enjoy’ the efficacy of condoms and engage in truly safe sex. 

Don’ts 


Don’t use a condom without checking its expiry date.

Condoms typically have a shelf life of at around five years. It’s much less if a condom comes with spermicides in it. That said, always be sure to read the literature of a condom brand before using it. Check for expiration date first and foremost, then check for other small details, such as components or ingredients used.

 Don’t wear a condom stored in your wallet or glove compartment for a prolonged period 

If there’s one thing guaranteed to kill a condom’s efficacy, it’s heat. Heat from your body or from your car affects the structure of latex, increasing its tendency to break. As cool as it is to be a boy scout and have a condom tucked somewhere convenient (that way you’re ready for action anytime), you may want to rethink the condom-in-the-wallet-or-car strategy.

Dos


Do choose a condom size that’s appropriate for you

This is a simple rule. A condom that’s too small is too snug and takes away the pleasurable sensation and friction associated with sex. A condom that’s too large on the other hand, is prone to slipping off during sex. Besides, all that extra material only makes you feel inadequate, the last thing you want in the bedroom. Be honest with yourself and choose a condom the right size for you.

Do use a condom when engaging with a stranger

One-night stands are exciting and fun for some people. Contracting HIV or an STD is not. It’s as simple as protecting yourself during risky behavior. Always be on the safe side when having sex with a stranger, or even someone you’re in a new relationship with. Furthermore, you want to prevent an unwanted pregnancy by using a condom.