Some guys think that it’s a hassle to wear condoms. However, the best way to have safe sex and protect yourself is to actually put on one. If wearing a condom makes sex boring and less enjoyable to your partner, here are a few tips to turn that idea around and make it fun. According to sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, making a guy think using a condom is more enjoyable is easy. You just need to make sure you pick out the right condom, make sure he’s comfortable with it and keep the intensity and passion high all throughout the act.
Size matters
You have to make sure you’re using the right sized condom. Condoms that are too tight can reduce the sensation, it can easily break and it takes a longer time to put on. Something too big might also easily slop off and it could also hit his ego.
Speed it up
The faster the condom is placed on, the better. He’s less likely going to lose his erection if you put on the condom right after foreplay. Take the rubber out, place a few drops of lubricant in to help increase the sensation and you’re ready to go. Adding lubricant inside the condom helps to add sensation on the head, which is the most sensitive part of the penis.
Use your mouth
You can get creative and turn your partner on by using your mouth to place the condom on. Place the disk between your lips with the tip facing inward and place it on the head of the penis. Push it down with your lips and unroll the whole thing with your hands. This is where flavored condoms come in handy. Some condoms are actually sweet so if the taste of latex grosses you out, use a flavored condom. Also, try to avoid condoms that have spermicide, this might cause irritation on your lips.
Use toys
You can get a vibrating ring at any sex shop. If you can’t find one, go online. Some condoms also have built in vibrating rings but they’re only good for one use and might get a bit expensive. But it’s a nice to get one just to make safe sex more interesting.
Positions help
Try different positions or you could just easily squeeze both your legs together to add pressure. This helps add more sensation since your vaginal wall is contracted.
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